What does work:
1. Foreplay… LOTS of foreplay
2. If she is enjoying a specific position stay there for a little while
3. Give her clit some love too
4. Touch her ALL over, not just her nipple and between her legs
5. COMMUNICATE. “Does this feel good” & “Better now?” Communication opens up sexual possibilities and will help you learn what does work
6. Use Lube. Lube makes something good feel even better.

& now…

What doesn’t work:
1. Racing through foreplay
2. Changing position too quickly
3. Ignoring her clitoris
4. Ignoring the rest of her body
5. Not communicating
6. No Lube

You can see the entire article here! Thank you Ryan & Dr. Jessica for all your helpful tips

How can you keep it exciting in the bedroom as the hot summer nights start to cool down? Learn some ways to keep from falling into a dangerously dull routine of humdrum lovin’ with our Back to School Love Lessons for September:

Lesson # 1:  Start Your Back to School Shopping Early!

You know that everyone will be shopping for their school supplies and all of the stores will be crowded, so it’s good to bring a list of the essential items you will need for school. The same goes for romance!  You know that summer is almost over, so start making a list of the essentials you need for fall. Make sure to include some cold weather basics like lip balm, moisturizer, and of course, some goodies that will heat up the bedroom.

For you ladies, and any adventurous couples, try the Wild Orgasm Wild Orchid. This sensuous Wild Orchid will drive you wild! It has two powerful, synchronized motors with 200 intense patterns of vibration, pulsation, and rotation and a turbo powered full coverage clitoral encaser with stimulating pistolettes. Or, if you are interested in learning (it is back to school time, right?) about a new sensation, try the Insatiable Lover for some fun loving G-Spot exploration. Designed for complete and total feminine arousal, it has a dual action deep penetrating “G” with a full contact flickering tongue, independent multi-speed controls and powerful removable dual bullets. For the guys, try a ring that will give you a longer and harder erection. You will love the Rally Ring Enhancers because they add girth and stamina while being a stretchy and durable enhancer ring.

Lesson # 2:  Schedule Your Romance!

Don’t worry that it won’t be fun if it’s not spontaneous. Think of how great it is to anticipate a hot date, when it’s Wednesday and you know you are going to have a steamy Saturday night. Or how great it feels when Friday afternoon rolls around and you know that you will have a great weekend with the family, but on Saturday afternoon, mom is coming over to watch the kids and you and your honey are getting dressed up and going to that romantic restaurant that everyone has been talking about, but you never seem to find the time to go – until now! Make sure to schedule at least 2 romantic events for September. That means if you are single, start mingling! Meet other single parents when you take the kids to school. Strike up a conversation with that good looking new classmate. Talk to people at the gym, at happy hour – you can find romance anywhere!

A great addition to any date is a toy that promotes intimacy and enhances pleasure! You may want to try the amazing Warm-n-Glow (warming massager). These glowing massagers have therapeutic warming technology and a 2-speed hi-intensity vibrating head that is flexible so it moves with you. Massage is a great way to connect with your partner! Or, if you want something more exciting, try a Pretty in Pastel vibrator. These feminine and soft toys are a perfect addition to a night or romance and pleasure.

Lesson #3: Do Your Homework!

We always talk about the importance of new experiences as part of your individual sexual exploration. You may know what you like, but isn’t it possible that there is something that you will like even more?  Learn what turns you on and be able to communicate that with a partner. If you are in a relationship, make sure to keep it exciting with new experiences, too! Have you been doing this all year? Well, school’s back in session and it’s time to do your homework!  Your assignment is to explore a new sexual sensation each week, alone or with a partner.  Here are some new sensations worth trying:

• For the guys, explore the unique feeling of the Glow-in-the-Dark Strokers for some fun in the dark.  Remember, using a stroker can be great for couples, too! That’s why they are jokingly called “wife savers” and many women find that they are a great way to please their partner while exploring his body.
• For the ladies, whether alone or with a partner, the powerful and whisper quiet L’Amour Premium Silicone Massager- Seductionis a refreshing and high quality product that offers many new sensations to explore.

We hope you have enjoyed these lessons and have fun doing your homework! Although summer is over, make sure to keep your sex life hot!

Warmly,

Ryan and Dr. Jessica

I find that overall, the Thumper is an attractive toy.  It’s a very pretty purple and the shape is not intimating and the control buttons are sleek…  

One of the features that I love about the Thumper is that it has a removable battery pack that holds three AAA batteries.  This makes it super easy to remove your batteries while the toy is not in use but keep them handy.  The control panel has three buttons; a dedicated on/off, vibration control, and rotation control.  The buttons light up a very bright blue which I like and are easy to use…

The Thumper has a cute little bunny shaped arm where the vibrations are focused.  The vibrations are a medium-high and a tad buzzy, but exceptionally quiet.  There are three steady levels of vibration and four functions of pulsation and escalation…

Overall, the l’Amour Thumper will be a good toy for many people.  It has a lot of the features I look for in a toy, the shape just didn’t quite work for me.

Check our the entire review here!

The April 2011 Sexual Assault Awareness Month campaign focuses on everyone speaking up to prevent sexual violence in our neighborhoods, communities, workplaces and schools.  The 2011 national Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM) campaign explores common, everyday behaviors and offers individuals viable, responsible ways to intervene. This primary prevention approach helps to create environments where people are safe in their relationships, families, neighborhoods, schools, work places and communities.

This year’s SAAM brings together resources and information, thus offering everyone the opportunity to address behaviors before sexual violence occurs.

To learn more abour SAAM & to see what events are going on in your area please check out this site

What a great day! If men can have “Steak & a BJ day” we surely need Cake and Cunnilingus Day!

Today is about celebrating female pleasure. It’s about putting our orgasms on the agenda and demanding pleasure equality! It’s about lying back and gorging on chocolate mud cake while our lover sticks his eager tongue into our pussy!

Forget the roses! This day puts the focus on women, their sexuality… and their tastebuds!

Check out these great sites for more information and some great tips! Cake and Cunnilingus Day & Facebook group

Now go… celebrate!

Here are a few facts:

• CDC estimates more than 19 million new cases of STDs each year in the United States.
• In 2009, there were more than 1.5 million total cases of chlamydia and gonorrhea reported to CDC- making them the two most commonly reported infectious diseases in the United States.
• STDs have an economic impact: direct medical costs associated with STDs in the United States are estimated at $17.0 billion annually.

• Half of new STD infections occur among young people ages 15 to 24 even though this age group makes up 25% of the sexually active population.
• African Americans account for approximately half of all reported chlamydia and syphilis cases and almost three-quarters of all reported gonorrhea cases even though they represent just 14 percent of the U.S. population.

STDs affect people of all races, ages, and sexual orientations so remember to get tested!

Check out these helpful sites for more information CDC & HIV Testing

1) Instead of complaining, whining, or raising your voice, speak softly with clear, concise, respectful, gracious, beautiful and loving language

2) Look for ways he makes you happy and let him know… regularly

3) Appreciate him

4) Give him romantic kisses instead of pecks

5) Flirt with him

Try all of these and see what a difference it makes in your relationship.

Want  more… check out the entire article here.

Our Panty Pal patented products have been great sellers for us, and the new Precious Gems Panty Pal designs are sure fire winners! These great looking sexy gems clip anywhere with our patented dual magnet system, and the push button stimulator produces intense vibrations! 100% safe and pure materials, and waterproof to boot!

For those of you waiting patiently for the release of our Sweet Obsession line of rechargeable massagers, your wait is over! Cherish is a petite and discreet, whisper quiet compact massager with a super soft 100% silicone teaser tip. With 10 functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation, this waterproof pleasure product will be getting rave reviews! Available in pink and purple.

Talk about a versatile selection of rechargeable silicone massagers! The Euphoric, Rapture, Divine, and Curiosity are aptly named incredibly sensuous massagers. Each of these luxurious, sensually curved, silky smooth, and whisper quiet rechargeable massagers feature 10 functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation…and with four different pleasure point tips. Get ‘em while they’re hot!

	Precious Gem Panty Pal
	Pink - Item Number: SE-0029-20-3  Clear - Item Number: SE-0029-25-3 Purple - Item Number: SE-0029-30-3 Accessorize with these sexy gems. Attached to most garments with patented dual magnet design. Intense vibrations with push button activation. ABS (stimulator, gem) ABS with Silver Plating (décor ring). Batteries included (3 watch, 6 included).
	Sweet Obsession Rechargeable Massage Cherish
	Pink - Item Number: SE-0031-04-3  Purple - Item Number: SE-0031-05-3Luxury rechargeable massagers. Petite and discreet, whisper quiet. Velvety soft Silicone teaser tip. 10 powerful functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation. Runs on HIGH for 1 hour, LOW for 1 hour 20 mins after 4 hour charge. Auto on/off button with state-of-the-art memory chip that resumes last function used. ABS (massager) Silicone (ticklers) ABS with Silver Plating (ring). 100/240 Volt AC charger included. Battery included (1 rechargeable 3V battery)
	Sweet Obsession Rechargeable Silicone Massager – Euphoric
	Item Number: SE-0031-10-3Luxurious and rechargeable. Sensually curved, silky smooth, whisper quiet. Unique pleasure point tips.10 powerful functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation. Runs on HIGH for 45 minutes, LOW for 1 hour after 4 hour charge. Auto on/off button with memory chip that resumes last function used. Unscented Silicone (sleeve) ABS (cap) ABS with Silver Plating (ring). 100/240 Volt AC charger (included). 1 Rechargeable 3V battery (included)
	Sweet Obsession Rechargeable Silicone Massager – Rapture
	Item Number: SE-0031-20-3Luxurious and rechargeable. Sensually curved, silky smooth, whisper quiet. Unique pleasure point tips.10 powerful functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation. Runs on HIGH for 45 minutes, LOW for 1 hour after 4 hour charge. Auto on/off button with memory chip that resumes last function used. Unscented Silicone (sleeve) ABS (cap) ABS with Silver Plating (ring). 100/240 Volt AC charger (included). 1 Rechargeable 3V battery (included)
	Sweet Obsession Rechargeable Silicone Massager – Divine
	Item Number: SE-0031-30-3Luxurious and rechargeable. Sensually curved, silky smooth, whisper quiet. Unique pleasure point tips.10 powerful functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation. Runs on HIGH for 45 minutes, LOW for 1 hour after 4 hour charge. Auto on/off button with memory chip that resumes last function used. Unscented Silicone (sleeve) ABS (cap) ABS with Silver Plating (ring). 100/240 Volt AC charger (included). 1 Rechargeable 3V battery (included)
	Sweet Obsession Rechargeable Silicone Massager – Curiosity
	Item Number: SE-0031-40-3Luxurious and rechargeable. Sensually curved, silky smooth, whisper quiet. Unique pleasure point tips.10 powerful functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation. Runs on HIGH for 45 minutes, LOW for 1 hour after 4 hour charge. Auto on/off button with memory chip that resumes last function used. Unscented Silicone (sleeve) ABS (cap) ABS with Silver Plating (ring). 100/240 Volt AC charger (included). 1 Rechargeable 3V battery (included)

Could your sex life use a little something? Well our friends over at SheKnows.com have some great tips for you!

1. Set a sex goal
2. Wear something cute to bed
3. Get in on the AM (Morning sex is the best)
4. De-clutter your bedroom
5. Frgo the bedroom all together

Try just 1 or try them all…. anything to spice things up. Oh & don’t forget about your toys!

Check out the entire article here